It does not matter whether you find a life partner on a free dating website or in real life. Every relationship is different and has different expectations. Every good and healthy relationship means having really good communication and understanding which can mean negotiating and finding mutually satisfactory solutions for both partners. In a healthy relationship partners communicate often with each other and always try to help when they think you might be uncomfortable. Partners who love you, will never put any pressure on you or shame you for not doing what they want. Healthy relationships are built on trust, understanding and mutual respect and never on suspicions and background checks.